What I Learned About My Life - 1659 Words

One of the hardest identities which I have come to develop is my religious beliefs. Although my mom never really told my brother and me what to believe, I did know that she was a devoted Catholic. She grew up in church, even though we didn’t go to church, she prayed every morning and carries a picture of Jesus in her wallet. My mom s nonchalant attitude towards religion led me to explore different faiths. As a child, I just did what my mom did—she prayed, I prayed, she believed so I believed. Also with catholicism being part of Christianity, this norm went unexamined, similar to whiteness. However, the more I learned, the more doubts I started to have in what her faith preached. Although most of my life, I identified as Catholic to my†¦show more content†¦I understand that people die every day for expressing their beliefs and I need to recognize my privilege and use it to be there for others. After taking a gender studies class my senior year, I realized the spectrum in which gender falls into. This is something which is not binary; although, it often taught in this fashion. Although people use science-based arguments to argue that gender is binary I finally understood that it wasn t. Gender is such a versatile concept, but I didn’t know how privileged I was to identify as one of the socially accepted genders. I identify as female. Through the LLC and learning more about Silvia Rivera and other individuals, I started to understand how privileged I was to identify as female, although this is still an oppressed identity. In Lorde’s article, she says â€Å" the reality of our lives and our struggle does not make us immune to the errors of ignoring and misnaming differences.† This quote is powerful because although I might be oppressed as a female I now understand that by confirming I am more privileged than those who do not conform. It is powerful when s omeone uses the right pronouns when addressing you. Accepting my gender was not something that was hard for me to do, however being women has come with its challenges. The most important part of this identity for is how it relates to my ethnicity—I am Latina. This means I comeShow MoreRelatedWhat I Learned About My Life890 Words   |  4 Pagespassed, and I had learned immensely from the DeLacys. I learned French, geography, and history. All I wanted was to be accepted by that family! They were my only hope. I knew their story, and their daily routines. I saw their fellowship and love for each other. I yearned to be loved by them! Over the past few weeks, I began to think of how I could introduce myself to the DeLacys. Each day after I collected wood for the family, I would sit in the peaceful forest and think of ways I could gain theRead MoreWhat I Learned About My Life840 Words   |  4 Pagesinterviewing my parents, I was very surprised by some of the things they told me such as their experience crossing the border. I realized that bringing up the past might have been challenging for them considering it reminded them of the difficult times, but at the same time, they reflected on the positive outcomes that came from their decisions. Re-reading my paper before looking at the comments or feedback made me feel confident because I now have a better understanding of my background. I learned so muchRead MoreWhat I Learned About My Life983 Words   |  4 Pagesthing I enjoyed learning is cooking. I have had a liking for cooking since I was very young. I remember that every Christmas I will ask my parents to buy me little pots and pans, plastic food and kitchen sets. During the afternoon I use to play restaurant with my nanny and make little menus for her. Cooking has been a thing that came naturally to me, and something that I really enjoyed doing. The things I know about cooking I learned while watching my mother cook and reading recipes online. I alsoRead MoreWhat I Learned About My Life2536 Words   |  11 PagesI knew I forgot to do something yesterday. The feeling had followed me like a shadow all day long, but by the time that I closed my eyes with the moon’s light all too visible through the thick gaps of my window’s shades, I thought it to be simple paranoia leftover from finally finishing high school. Now that I’m two feet away from Miss Mariam’s back gate, however, I suddenly realize what I was supposed to do. I was supposed to drop off that pie to the new neighbor. It’s all coming back to me nowRead MoreWhat I Learned About My Life871 Words   |  4 PagesI lay there just looking at him, taking him in for a few minutes. Finally, I broke from staring at him and put my hand on his chest. I leaned into him and started kissing his neck and the side of his face. David stirred and pulled me to him. I just kept kissing his neck and his chest. He slid his arm under me and in an instant he had me on my back, and he was on top of me. When he made love to me, I was gone, gone from everything. There was only he and I and everything else fell away. I had no wordsRead MoreWhat I Learned About My Life During The Decade Of The 1980 S1683 Words   |  7 Pagesthought about going through whether it being a positive or negative circumstance. However, we all have went through the same historical timeline. By this I mean that people living through the same decades have went through the same historical events such as with wars, precedencies, and all the s ignings between countries throughout the world. As I thought about who I wanted to interview for my history report, I concluded that I wanted to learn more about my mom when she was the same age as me. My intervieweeRead MoreMy Experience At Eastern Connecticut State University937 Words   |  4 PagesIn my time at Eastern Connecticut State University, I learned a lot about myself and what I have been doing as a student. In that time, I learned not only about myself, my academic strength’s and even learned to think critically and ask questions. Eastern has taught me to be myself and this campus puts more emphasis on individuality over group thinking. I learned a lot in applying my critical thinking skills to my history classes and learned a lot in how to look at History in everyday context. WhatRead MoreReflection Essay1638 Words   |  7 PagesThe first thing that I learned from this class was by The Dominican Charism â€Å"The Dominican passion for truth presumes a confi dence in the intellect’s capacity for discerning truth and for reaching a level of clarity that enables both teacher and student to distinguish truth from error, and distortions and half-truths from the truth† (Charism) It made me more motivated and confident in what am doing today. Having a connection between the student and the teacher is nice, especially when the teacherRead MoreEssay On How Many People Does It Take To Make A Difference1245 Words   |  5 PagesA) What did you learn about yourself in doing the exercises in the book (How Many People Does It Take to Make a Difference? One) that you didn’t already know? Response: This book has taught me many things about myself that I didn’t know . For example , I usually dont think about life in a hard way but this book helped me view life differently. In the beginning of book one of the first exercises it asks â€Å" Who am I ? † that question kind of threw me off guard and made me think hard. I askedRead MoreA Leader Of My Writing1033 Words   |  5 PagesA Leader of My Writing As far as the connections are Greek life helped me understand different parts about my writing. Forcing myself out of my comfort zone, I learned to communicate better with other people and learned to have fun with others around me. My social life during high school is a complete 180 from what it is now. Greek life has aided me in realizing how my writing can be altered in a same fashion as my social life has matured. From Greek life, I met a variety people and had the opportunity